Nokia E65, my Audi can´t show SIM contacts on MMI via bluetooth, need software.

I have a Nokia E65 and a bluetooth divice in my car Audi A6 with MMI.
My E65 can connect til the cars MMI via bluetooth so I can dial
numbers an recieve calls, no problem. But I cant access my SIM
contacts or phone contacts. I have spoken to NOKIA an they tell me
that it s because of Symbian that does not alow my car to access
contacts because of safety reasons. They tell me that I have to
download and install software to my E65 that tells the phone that it
is allrigth for My car to access contacs. So far so good. The problem
is that I cant find the software anywhere on the internet.
Does anyone have any idea, where to find it???? Or have a simulere
problem?

PS, I am dansih, so there could be misspelling